TY - BOOK AU - Chast,Roz TI - Can't we talk about something more pleasant? SN - 9781608198061 AV - NC 1429 C489c 2014 U1 - 741.5/6973092 PY - 2014/// CY - New York PB - Bloomsbury KW - Chast, Roz KW - Cartoonists KW - United States KW - Biography KW - Comic books, strips, etc KW - Graphic novels KW - Wit and humor, Pictorial KW - Tiras cómicas, historietas, etc KW - Caricaturas KW - Dibujos KW - Técnica KW - 20150700 N1 - A memoir; The beginning of the end -- Return to the fold -- The elder lawyer -- Galapagos -- The fall -- Maimonides -- Sundowning -- The end of an era -- The move -- The old apartment -- The place -- The next step -- Kleenex abounding -- Postmortem -- Elizabeth, alone -- Bedtime stories -- Chrysalis -- The end N2 - In her first memoir, Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through a mixture of cartoons, family photos, documents, and a narrative as rife with laughs as it is with tears, Chast's memoir is both comfort and comic relief for anyone experiencing the life-altering loss of elderly parents. When it came to her elderly mother and father, Roz held to the practices of denial, avoidance, and distraction. But when Elizabeth Chast climbed a ladder to locate an old souvenir from the "crazy closet"--with predictable results--the tools that had served Roz well through her parents' seventies, eighties, and into their early nineties could no longer be deployed. While the particulars are Chast-ian in their idiosyncrasies--an anxious father who had relied heavily on his wife for stability as he slipped into dementia and a former assistant principal mother whose overbearing personality had sidelined Roz for decades--the themes are universal: adult children accepting a parental role; aging and unstable parents leaving a family home for an institution; dealing with uncomfortable physical intimacies; managing logistics; and hiring strangers to provide the most personal care ER -